The power of
words –part II
Root problem – Lack of knowledge
Man does not reach his full
potential in most cases. And the core cause is lack of knowledge. What
potential? The potential to do good, to do LIFE producing work. You may not, at
the first instance, agree to it. But you will, after looking at a few examples. If you are qualified and yet unemployed, it is because you do not
know the company that requires your services. You are sick because did not know that some work you did or you did not do
would result in the sickness. Health is avast subject that would require lot of
space to write on. However, briefly we can say that lack of the knowledge of
the health laws is the cause of sickness. Health involves not only man’s body
as such, but also his soul and spirit. At this point it would suffice to say
that the well being of his soul spirit is at the core of man’s health.
The Human Mind
As a man thinks, so he lives.
Man’s mind controls his life. And the mind functions upon the knowledge input.
The human mind is a factory that
processes information and produces thoughts followed by words and actions. Throughts give birth to words. These words find their way out from the mind
into the world through speaking or writing, through the mouth or the fingers
holding a pen. And man’s whole life
fabric is woven out in this processing
in his mind, the decision he made upon them and the action he performed.
The Role of Environment
A person’s story is created, not
by himself alone, but also by the people around him. This statement is not
entirely true, as what is effectual is the words people speak into his life. It
is not necessary that all people the words people speak into his life. It is
not necessary that all people around him speak to him. Words and thoughts come
to him people, from the world around him including nature. Books, newspaper and the multimedia
also influence the thinking of man. People ans thing need not speak to him, in
order to impact him. The silence of some people also speak to man. Nature does
not speak words, necessarily. And yet, they convey messages. Communication goes
on between man and his surroundings. This takes place mostly in the through
from. Messages are processed in the printing press in the mind of man. It is
his decision to discard some and
consider others. He can ignore negatives and concentrate upon positives.
Formation
Word are formed in man’s mind.
They flow out through his mouth or his fingers. Among all creation, God has
given only man the gift of speech.
Words are Transferable.
Words can be preserved like a
pickle in a sense.pickles, of course, get consumed, but not words. Words can be
preserved for every in the written from in paper and in the soft copy in a
computer. Written words take on life when they are read. That is what student wants
do. They hear words. They read words in their books and get their content into
their brains. Again at exam time the ideas come out in words in their minds and
their fingers are quick to put them on
paper. The mind acts like an answer machine.
Words are containers.
Words contain knowledge. They
contain life secrets and knowledge on different subjects. They contain
inspiration, encouragement & emotions. Reading books has changed the life
of thousand of of people. The experience of people who have travelled the path
of life before, is recorded in books. Reading them, we can avoid the mistakes
they made and keep walking on the path
to success. T^hey can make people feel at ease and laugh. These are LIFE words.
Negative words can people, make them mad or sad. They are DEATH words.
Words are Keys
With words we can lock and
unlock. We can close doors of opportunity with words. Using words we can open
up the doors of good will in people. With just a mere ‘Don’t’ , we can propel
people we into action.
Words are Binding.
With our we make a statement, a
promise. And it becomes binding upon us. We are bound by our words. You go to a
shop and ask the price of a bag. The shopman says Rs.500. You negotiate and say
you would pay 300 bucks. The shopman agrees. At once you think in your mind,
you should have quoted 200 instead of 300. But you yourself know now you can’t
do it. The word came out of your mouth and you are bound by it you can’t go
back.
Aperson of Integrity
Knowing the value of words, you
get careful using them. You no more casual or joking with words. Some people
speak rash words and seeing the reaction of the listener, would say, ‘I was
only joking’. That is a very smart way of escaping. Being true to one’s word,
makes one a man of his words. A person you’ll go to his place in the evening,
and towards evening you find you can’t make it, you should call him and inform
about it. Make yourself a person of commitment in this manner.
Speak What you mean, and mean
what you say.
For your words to produce result,
you should speak words you mean. Your thinking has to line up with your words.
Once a teacher instructed his foreign students that they should come in their
uniforms from the next Monday. These students were coming for months in casuals. The teacher turned aside and told
us colleagues, ‘I know these boys would never come wearing their uniforms’. I
got annoyed and told the teacher he
should n’t be cancelling out his own instructions in this manner, and stated
that the students would surely obey him. Thus I cancelled out his own
contradiction and the students did come in their uniforms.
Substantiate Words with Substance
What I have given is a very
common example of most people saying one
thing without substance and expressing their doubts and fears in the next
moment. This they do because they do not understand the role of words in human
life. Holding back hope expectation while speaking words, is like speaking empty
words that do not perform. Words are supposed to perform work. If we want our
words to work, we need to put substance into them. They come out in full value
and power and execute the work.
Words are Tools.
Words are weapons and tools
freely available to man. Some people in distress come to us for help. What they
are looking for is moral support more than financial assistance. People narrate
to us incidents. What they expect is our comments- our judgment. Since we know
words are force that make or break, we
can use them for creative purposes. When a person disheartened comes to us, we
can revive that person’s drooping spirit with
our LIFE words. Like a dying plant in dry soil receiving water and rising
back to life, such despondent people would lift up their heads again. Receiving hope and direction,
once again they would pick up from where they fell, and continue their life
journey.
If we understand the power of
words, we would use them to do the work we want to get done. For example,
parents and teachers would speaking performance words in future tense, ignoring
the present discouraging performance. These words start working. Speaking words
like, ‘ My son will score above 80%. He will become a responsible citizen,
would get the work done in due time. The words will create change in son, and
he will become what the parents speak
into his life. We have seen the lives of failures driven to it by the cursing
words spoken by druken fathers and disgusted mothers. We have also known of
great men built up by the words spoken
by their parents with the trust they placed in those words.
Words are Seeds
We all have the adage, ‘As you
sow, so you shall reap’, in our own vernacular versions. A farmer sows seeds
and reaps their harvest in a multiplied from. A single mango seed sown into the
dirt, would sprout and grow up to be a tree that would produces mangoes in
thousands, season after season. In life, words are seeds. Just as an apple seed
produces apples, words also produce their kind. Words of encouragement would
produce words of hope time and again, Of court, just as a mango seed takes
time to grow into a mango seed, words also take their time produce their
results. Plant a vision in a student to become a millionaire so that he can give
back to the world. The seed would take 10 or more years to materialize. LIFE
words produce life and DEATH words produce death. Speak what you want, not what
you see. Something new? Yes, we are used to speaking out what we see, even to
predict the future –at least immediate future. Looking at the darkening horizon
around 4.30, (our time to leave college) my college would say, ‘ It’s going
to rain. You know, this is the shankranti time…, ‘Something to this tune. And I
would say, ‘No, it is n’t . It should rain at midnight; not during the day, not during the night. For
people have to come and go. And my words came true. Once Arun madam came
walking from college to hastily,instead of waiting for the college bus. Seeing
me, she smiled and said, ‘I knew that till Elsy madam reaches the hostel, it
would n’t rain.
We Get What We Speak
It’s like placing orders, words I
mean. We say, ‘Don’t drink water from
the frid he. You would catch a cold. Don’t run, you’d fall.naturally, the words
would do their work. Once two little boys had climbed trees. They climbed
happily and sat on each tree. The climbing was indeed exciting, but not for
long. Now they looked down and wanted to come down. However, fear gripped them.
‘How shall I come down? each thought. Their mothers stood below, looking up at
them. They were worried and scared. One mother said to her son,’Be careful’.
Just take a little care while coming down. You can make it. The other mother
said, ‘Take care that you don’t fall down’. The first child came down safely,
but the other fell down. This incident very clearly tell that we get what we
utter.
It is only natural to get worried
over little things. We fear a great many things that really don’t happen. As
the commotion is going on in the mind and heart, we give word to our fear. That
is the blunder we do, even for the persons we love. We lead them to fall, to
sickness, to failure, to accidents, just by expressing our fears.
But since we have learnt of the
science of words through this article, I am sure all readers would come to a new
level of understanding. You have learnt a big secret about life. So you shall
control your thoughts and your speech, and thereby, direct your life to paths
of safety, serenity and success.
Helps to Tame the Tongue
Empty vessels make the most
noise. A person speaks out what is in his heart. Hence, we need to empty our
minds of sickness thoughts and failure thoughts. We need to flush out fear
from our hearts. Easily said than done, you would say. Find they get inside and
stop the inlets. The doors of entry are man’s eyes and ears. So take a stock at
input sources. They can be people & books, TV. Choose the good ones and
leave the bad ones. This the path to peace and success.
Mrs. Elsy Matthew
Assistant Professor –English
Brindavan College of Engineering
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